what if.....?

when people say

life is a movie

it has a storyline

it has a timeline

but

they never told you

it cannot be rewind

it flies very fast

it is just present

coz life happen

only when u realize it

only when u want it

only when u chart it

but

what if

tomorrow never come

past has gone

future is unreacheable

sacrifice

is a word of its own

is a must for a better

is never fail to come

but

are you satisfy

when life requires u to work

when work sacrifice your time

when time never comes back

are you sure you have made the right choice now?

tips for a long distance relationship

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there was once my office mate who is getting married soon. well... am not an expert here but i could share some tips that i practice since then.

tips for a long distance relationship (LDR)

trust

this is the most inportant key to ensure strong LDR. whatever happen, you must give 100% trust on your ur hubby. LDR could weaken if trust is not the main game here. altho i admit sometimes, once a while women tend to be jealous on certain in fact small thing, communication must then plays a greater role

communicate

this is very critical so that both party understood what it takes to undertake LDR. yes of course LDR is not easy bitsy and the longer it is, the more it create frustation and dissapointment. so, communicate, tal to your hubby on stuff that you have been missing, things that you are waiting and most important, how would you feels. and dont forget to be a good listener as well!

keep busy

being separated and away from hubby tend to make you cry even more!! yes i experience this *wink* even i drove early in the morning to work and hear the zikir or song that ku always played when we went to work together before, makes me cried all the way to work!! after a year than only i realised i need something else to keep moving. i used to see others life is more interesting and i like to read their blog. but when i started blogging, i realised that my life is even more interesting!! hahahaha. altho i know that to be a true bloggers makes you sleep less, but i guess i enjoy every second of it so far *BIG smile!!*

find time together

when you are back together, plan for something to do together. plan for a getaway, a holiday or as simple as a special dinner or watch movie. there no need to do all those fancy thingy just to keep both of you together. so plan wisely!

be strong

being in LDR will teach you soo many things in life. it makes you appreciate your hubby even more, it makes you realise that time is very crucial when they are around, it teach you the real meaning of "missing you", it teach you what is marriage all about and it simply teach you soo many other things! so be strong to face it coz you are the only one who have to manage it and can manage it well~ keep you friens, family and children around to accompany you. dont focus too much on sadness but look forward for the time to end. the stronger you are, the shorter the time will be

i know its hard, i know its painful, i know how it feels. you are not alone peeps! keep on blogging and keep believing~

i feel like writing...

yes i know that i will write

when then time is just right

yes i know that i will write

when the heart feels not right

yes i know that i will write

when the happiness has rise

yes i know that i will write

when a mixture of feeling has strike

writte by : hana.basri

 

p/s : actually the earlier version is longer.. but ive mistakenly delete it!! shoot~~ *uwaaaaa*

 

SpecialSlot : Rezeki yang Berkat

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our daily life is always subjected to mencari rezeki. be it the terms is difference..say "nak kumpul duit", "kene kerja nak tampung keluarga", "banyak hutang nak bayar" etc. we tend not to realise that all in all, it all comes from the ALMIGHTY. seeking for the blessing is the best that we could do. so how to receive

rezeki yang berkat

bersyukur kepada Allah atas segala yang diberikan

belanjakan harta ke jalan yang diredhai Allah

berusaha mendapatkan rezeki yang Halal

mengeluarkan Zakat yang wajib ke atas harta

bersedekah kepada anak yatim setiap hari

bersedekah sunat

mencari harta dunia untuk ke akhirat

insyaAllah...

why some man are NOT gentleman

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have you ever cross a path with a very gentleman man?

when they help to open your door

when they allow you to go inside the lift first

when they catch a cab for you

when they offer to carry your bag

and the list i bet, never fail to end! *wink*

i think the terms 

gentleman

does not really exist is all culture. i believe gentleman is somekind a behaviour that one's have it or planted inside them. its the respect that they showed to woman or anyone out there. they simply polite in any way. but somehow, people misjudge them with many negative perception.

there are so many website, articles or even classes that teach on "How To Be A Gentleman". for example

50 rules to being gentleman

how to be a gentleman

the importance of being gentleman

how to tip like a gentleman

well... i guess one cannot lie if that value is not inside it. people can tell that you fake it just to win woman's heart!! so how to be a gentleman?? here is a good short tips

enjoy~~

monday blues~

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i have a monday blues this morning. erm well.. not so much about going to work but rather very very seriously sleepy and summore it was raining outside. went out home early but got stucked in traffic~~ gosh... raining in KL is always relates to accident!! feels like U-turn and continue my good sleep *sigh*

5 best tips to hold back Monday Blues

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wear to the best

if you feel like no fun going to work on monday, look forward to put on your best shirt or dress to work. its some kind like... dress to kill!! owh.. not to forget your hot handbag...ouch~~!

start with a reward back in mind

told yourself that you must accomplished what lies today and promise to reward yourself on something really really good.. strawberry chocolate dip or ice blended chocolate top with creammmm... irresistible!!

play ur music out loud

yeah yeah.. seriously if i got stuck especially monday morning, i will listen to my fav song or tune to my radio FM. gosh i dont know why people are sooo motivated to pack the road every single monday morning..! so, singing out loud seriously a good motivator!!

look forward for lunch 

ok this may sound too much~ hahaha. but i think its still appropriate to think about ur lunch even before you reach the office. seriously~~ *me not kidding here ok* food will always motivate one so you will keep on looking forward for the clock to tick faster than normal!!

breath in, green in

yup~~ green things could always give you good theraphy. its a sense of relaxing. so look out ur window and find green leaves, trees etc and breath in to feel the freshness. ok... hot babe in green does not count u ols~~

XOXO

how to make a sticky post?

i receive a query on how to make a sticky post *hi cik pia* let me share with u ols one of many ways to do 

*sticky post*

step 1 - click Design tab

step 2 - click Add a Gadget at the side bar. this will pop-out. click Text

step 3 - write ur sticky post. you may include something like *sticky post* or *24hrs sticky post* etc.

then save

step 4 - your sticky post will appear at the side bar. drag & drop to the above of Blog Post

step 5 - sticky post is ready above your Blog Post. click save

step 6 - tadaaa!!! see ur sticky post overthere? if you want to remove...

just go back to design tab, click your sticky post, then click remove and lastly save

easy bitsy very easy~~

10 tips to age gracefully

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yesterday i came across this article while reading theSun newspaper *thanx k jijah* it really influence me to read more. i think u must read this as well.. its summarize from 

"Ageing gracefully, the French way"

10 tips to age gracefully

the French way

take care of yourself. be aware of your own femininity

avoid heavy make-up

use lotion instead of soap

rinse skin with cold water to improve circulation

eat fresh foods in small portions

go to spa if you're lazy for exercise

go to dermatologist

plastic surgery shoud be done with obejctive "to look like themselves, not younger"

dont dress like your daughter, pay attention to accessories

wear sexy underware! a french writer quoted "a dress makes no sense unless it inspires men to take it off you" ehem-ehem..

source : theSUN

netbook guide for dummies

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remember when i ask u ols to help me out in finding the best netbook? well… this is the reason why we have limited time last saturday. hehehe. browsing for best netbook is not easy bitsy for me especially when im not a laptop geek nor gadgets freak. so my purchase is mainly based on my own research, expert gadget geek friends, internet review and of course, the sales person! *LOL* i think its good for me to share what i have learnt in my journey to find a netbook

NETBOOK GUIDE FOR DUMMIES

step 1

if you have no idea what-so-ever about netbook e.g. the latest brand, the specs, the technology, always browse thru for something like "best netbook 2010", "netbook review", "recommended netbook" etc. 

step 2

you will come across numbers of thousands of helpful tips when u google as suggested in step 1 BUT wait! sometimes... those thousand give u headache!! so please, find the simplest review first e.g. computers.toptenreviews.com. then, when u have some feels about netbook, start reading reviews. remember, all those bombastic mr loba-loba geeks language just didnt sound rite to you sometimes. what u need to do?? 

read only review that make sense to you *wink* example bestnetbookreviewz.com, netbooklive.net

step 3

when u started to get dizzy with all those specs listed, you may use this rule of thumbs that i have gathered from various sources

Windows® 7 
min requirement

Intel® Atom processor

good/best for battery life

Intel® Atom N450

see that 450 number? the higher it is, the better!!

Memory 

e.g. 1GB DDR2. the higher GB and DDR, the best memory it could offer. means go for DDR3 if possible 

CAUTION : 2GB DDR2 vs 1GB DDR3 is very much similar

L2 Cache

choose higher than 512KB for best performance!

Display

i prefer 12" rather than 10". so choose base on your preferences


RAM

minimum 2GB RAM u ols~~

Bluetooth

this would be ur best companion if you need to use ur smart phone as a broadband modem


Screen resolution

i noticed there is not much difference among netbook. sony has the best resolution. 

CAUTION : high resolution may compromise battery life. so pick the best power saving model!


Others
ask yourself for any additional stuff like limited addition series, matte vs shiny cover, etc,

step 4

check out few netbooks that you have reviewed and expect for the worst case i.e. the netbook is out of stock. so make this tips handy while deciding with the help of sales person. never trust 100% the sales person but rather, go & ask few sales person on the basic fundamental on things that u know. 
CAUTION : u can sense if they really know or they just pretend to know coz they think u dont know *huh?*

step 5

get ur bling-bling card ready to swipe bebeh!!!

step 6

ready to rock with ur new gadgets *wink*

wanna know what i catch last saturday?? in which i have no idea at first and it wasnt in my list!! LOL


stay tune peeps~~

how to deal with pimples?

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i used to have lots of pimples. i never have it when i was in secondary, but it burst out when i was in uni!! i don’t blame the hormone… yeah… its hard to deal with it but hey! u never can control ur hormone~ what? u can? hurm.. yes u may try but if its still inside u, it will come out no matter how hard you control it. i used to take pills from skin specialist in which i thought it would very much help my pimples. hurm… yeah indeed it was!!! seriously skin specialist with no doubt gave me the best pills to control the growth but it just control/slow it down, not demolished!!! d**n it~ and there it goes started to climb up and hiking hard!! shoooot~~ of course nobody like to have pimples. while i hate pimples so much, i got no choice but to deal with it. i love to read stuff especially things related to beauty & health. owh yes… my motto

aged gracefully~~

*tweet tweet tweet*

besides reading, i will google for info, drop by luxury product counter and facial spa to get beauticians advice, talk to specialist and the list goes on. i even learn from chinese how they take care of their gorgeous skin. years after years i learn that by having changes in hormone does help to tone it down. but hey! *again* how to deal with it when its still there?? here is my compilation of tips based on my own experience.. 

beauty product

- go for the establish company that have an intensive research on their product and can be guaranteed by them

- salicylic acid-based product helps a lot in maintaining oil production that can cause break out.

- tea tree is very good for pimples as it would dry it out.

facial care

- moisturizer : choose water-based moisturizer, not the cream oil-based type. how would you know its good for u? put the product at the back of ur palm. gentlely massage. if it quickly absorb into ur skin, it would be ok. but if its not, don’t use it. why? it will make ur face more oily later and welcome bacteri + family to berkampung & beranak-pinak!

- facial : you may do it once a month but don’t simply go for any facial. it must be a specific facial for acne problem.

food

- anti-oxidant - foods & fruits e.g. all berrys (strawberry, blackberry etc.), grape seed, tomato and so on

- less : food that is oily, spicy, peanuts. chinese do tell me that they don’t take ikan kembung

-  supplement : if u feel like having one, take the one that is rich with anti-oxidant. remember that excess supplement taken will be flush out. so don’t simply waste ur money

- water : the more the merrier!! take in min 2 liter per day. water helps to eliminate toxic in our body and improve body digestion. if ur skin is dry/less hydrate, it increase the chance to have break-out.

others

- don’t touch ur face with any fingers coz it will easily transfer germs and bacteria

- don’t squeeze ur pimples. never!! coz it can easily spread to other part of ur face. let the expert do for u

- less stress & tension. the more stress, the happier ur break out will be! *erk*

some other infos has been covered earlier

facial toner... the fact

dos & donts for asian skin care routine

flawless skin... the truth behind it