down the memory lane...

this morning it just trigger me to walk down my memory lane with beloved KU. its been almost 5 years now. alhamdulillah... we are still strong and the feeling is still the same 5 years back. of course along the way there are misunderstanding but syukur alhamdulillah Allah is always there to help us out. lets walk down with me on my journey

down the memory lane

marriage is always the end state where everyone is looking for in each relationship

knowing ku for almost 4 years brought us together in Dec 2005

marriage life is not as sweet as honey but more like roses

understanding, trust and tolerate is the KEY

the first year.. 2006

our first year of marriage put us at various test..

when ku was still working in shift so i have to get use not to see him every 4 days

when i was required to travel frequently so ku always find ways to adjust

when i was not yet pregnant and makes people keep asking without fail!

i still remember when i was back in Bintulu

my boss told me that we must undertake a vacation every year

as this will help to strengthen relationship

as this is the getaway for both of you

as this will give ur marriage more time together

we believed it and we started our yearly vacay

off we go to Redang Island

towards end of the year, the biggest dugaan striked!

Ya Allah.. it was the hardest to face and took us months to accept it

and now.. i understood the whole hikmah behind it..

the second year.. 2007

ku has stationed full time in the office

while my travel frequency increased and stationed me at various location

time spent together has lessen

either ku or myself have to travel to meet each other every single weekend

but of course, we missed few weekends together

so we decided to spend time in Beijing

its a beautiful city with lots to offer

have a though of our future ahead, we decided to buy our first home

we are so happy and very much looking forward for it

so this made us visit the site every other day!

end of the year, we received a great news..

lil qist is on our way!!!

alhamdulillah..

the third year.. 2008

it was a challenged for both of us

when i was heavily pregnant

and i am required to go to Singapore for almost 2 months

being pregnant and being away is not moment that i am looking for

ku has always be there to be the active supporter

so here we are again... travelling each weekend to meet each other

so we treat Singapore as our vacation for the year

we moved in our new home a week before lil qist arrival

still remember how hard we tried not to miss a daily routine

visiting our home, fix things here and there

renovation, dust, cleaning.. OMG! its just tiring for a big belly mommy!

alhamdulillah with patient and determination

we have lil qist in July 2008

it was great, it was easy to carry my daughter

syukur alhamdulillah

the fourth year.. 2009

now that i am stationed in the office

its my turn to have the same feeling as ku before

when ku is station offshore

it was the job that he has been looking for to experience

i must say yes coz i know how much he has sacrificed in the past

and how much he understand my work & my passion

and how much he wanted this

with lil qist growing fast

and i started to commercialize mamakuQis

less time spend together

not to mention ku has missed qist birthday due to work

and my birthady as well

we are up for Europe Vacation 2009

and this time it is more fun with family inside!!

yes its fun and in fact, BETTER

end of the year, my family received an emergency 

from my sister in Qatar

by all means, off we go to Doha for a visit

alhamdulillah our lil mushroom head is strong :)

the fifth year.. 2010

life become more challenging and fun at the same time

being away has make our relationship stronger

being away has make ur understand each other

being away has make our marriage stand tall

and being away teach both of us the word

I MISS YOU

may years to come bring us joy & happiness

may years to come strengthen our marriage

may years to come become sweet & creamy

may years to come brings ur close together *again*

XOXO